Sunday, December 25, 2016

Magic Christmas Snow Tender Mercies

Christmas can be a tough time of year.  This year we had tender mercies in the form of beautiful Christmas snow Christmas Eve (late late) and on Christmas Day.  So grateful!

 The beginning...

 The middle.
 More coming
 Yay, let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!
 at the end of our drive way looking at the Schmuhl's yard
 And of course a picture of the cute little Christmas puppy
a ton of snow in the parking lot!

Christmas


 I was SO SO grateful to Derek.  He helped me SO much in setting up Christmas this year!  It might not look like much decorations but I really appreciated it!!
 I loved that I had a place to put the nativity set and the Christmas Village this year


 This is our celebration of Christmas with our sweet Hannah and her cat, Pancake.  I love this little girl so much and I am grateful for all the time I have to spend with her, I love you Hannah and I am grateful that Derek loves you and that you have such a wonderful relationship with him.  You are worth it!!!!!!!



Friday, December 23, 2016

Derek's White Elephant party gift

Derek has a fabulous sense of humour.  I love what he chose as his white elephant gift for his Christmas party with his friends this year!

 He even autographed it!!! Ha ha hee hee,



Playing Guitar Hero with his friends, even Koda got in on it.  Great times,  just miss Hannah terribly

Sunday, December 18, 2016

My Sacrament meeting talk

I have been able to slip under the radar so to speak as far as giving talks (other than coming in and out of presidencies) for about 20 plus years.  I don't know how I've been able to do this but I have been able to until just recently.

I have been speaking in front of many people for over 11 years now and I would have thought that would help me, in addition to the fact that I have known and been friends with the ward members for many many years.  Although, I still feel uncomfortable giving the announcements in front of so many people on the plane.  In fact I still get nervous sometimes.  I have come to the conclusion that for a Sacrament Meeting talk since we are all at different levels in our ability to feel comfortable let alone not faint while speaking, that we should forego, abstain, renounce, refrain, cease, discontinue, halt, and STOP giving those unsolicited and very much unwanted "helpful criticisms" of , "be sure to look at the audience", and "smile".  This talk is neither graded or judged, we are not in school or at our job.  For some people in fact it is all we can do to stay at the podium and deliver the talk without crying uncontrollably (because of fear), fainting, vomiting, or run out of the church building.  This might even be the case for people who do not seem like they are even shy at all.  Like me...  At any rate... I made it through the talk without any of these unwanted things happening (except for the unwanted criticisms after the talk).

As I was sitting on the stand before I gave my talk the man who was sitting next to me and going to be giving his talk next leaned over to me and said some encouraging words to me and then he said something to me that was so tender and Christlike, I will never forget them.  It was simple but so profound.  He said that he would be praying for me as I was giving my talk.  That touched me so much.  I felt the love of my Savior and Heavenly Father right then and I certainly needed that strength.  At times in my talk I could barely make it through because I was so incredibly nervous but then, I could feel a calm come over me that I KNOW was sent directly from heaven, from the Holy Ghost.  I was so thankful.

Here is my talk:

Good morning. I was asked to speak this morning on a talk by President Uchtdorf which was given December of 2010 for the Christmas devotional entitled “Seeing Christmas through New Eyes”.

President Uchtdorf shares that, “There are certain words that ring like bells in my soul and remind me of the beauty and meaning of Christmas—words such as “And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus”1 and, of course, “Joy to the World!” “Away in a Manger,” and “Silent Night.”

I would like to add some words that I love to hear as well, from Luke chapter 2 verse 10, we hear, And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of GREAT joy, which shall be to ALL people.

I love how the words “fear not” were the first words the angel said. I think those words were chosen with great care and were significant and comfort for those he was speaking to then as well as to us now.

Since we live in a fallen world there has always been much to fear, however, as strong and sometimes relentless the fear is, Heavenly Father gives us knowledge and light exponentially. And with the knowledge and light, side effects and or dividends of truth, warmth and comfort are given. But to receive the strength, comfort guidance and many more gifts that our Heavenly Father wants to give us, we need to actively seek His Son Jesus Christ.

We have many heroes and mentors to look up to on earth now and in the past but there is none that has the healing and saving power of our Savior Jesus Christ.

 I also wanted to draw attention that the angel used the word GREAT to describe of the word joy. I think that extra word of GREAT is significant. Our loving Heavenly Father desires for us to have GREAT joy. And sent His son. The greatest gift that He could give to us.

 I was also impressed with the percentage of people that were included in this proclamation/promise It did not require any math at all which is another reason to rejoice. The amount of people this message was intended for was ALL.

 Other words that I love to hear during this Christmas season are Joy to the World, Glory to the new born king, silent night, holy night, and many more that are given to us from the old nostalgic hymns that we are blessed to hear and sing but once a year. In a world that at times seems so divided and pulled apart by differences it is comforting that These old hymns have a unique power that new hymns though fun to learn cannot do. The old hymns that are familiar to all have the power to bind generations no matter how old or young, regardless of geography, whether near or thousands of miles away. When those that celebrate Christmas hear or sing these songs of praise the familiarity that comes wipes away those divisions and differences. --

President Uchtdorf continues with saying, “There are other words, more cautionary, that are worthy of our consideration as well—words such as:

Every Who Down in Who-ville Liked Christmas a lot . . .
But the Grinch, Who lived just north of Who-ville, Did NOT!
The Grinch, that memorable character from a classic children’s story by Dr. Seuss, had a heart that “was two sizes too small,” and he hated everything about Christmas. Through the course of the story, however, he undergoes a dramatic transformation when he learns that there is more to Christmas than decorations and gifts.

Perhaps the Grinch’s story is so memorable because, if we are honest, we may be able to relate to him. Who among us has not felt concern over the commercialization and even greed of the Christmas season? Who hasn’t felt overwhelmed by the packed calendars, the stress of finding gifts, the pressure of planning meals and events? In fact, psychologists tell us that during this season of cheer and goodwill, many feel sorrow and depression.

We know what the Christmas season ought to be—we know it should be a time of reflection on the birth of the Savior, a time of celebration and of generosity. But sometimes our focus is so much on the things that annoy and overwhelm us that we can almost hear ourselves say in unison with the Grinch: “Why, for fifty-three years I’ve put up with it now! I MUST stop this Christmas from coming! . . . But HOW?”

We all have a Universal need to be loved, Elder Maxwell has a wonderful quote that helps us realize that we are known and loved by our Heavenly Father, and as usual it is packed so you need to listen carefully, “The same God that placed that star in a precise orbit millennia before it appeared over Bethlehem in celebration of the birth of the Babe has given at least equal attention to placement of each of us in precise human orbits so that we may, if we will, illuminate the landscape of our individual lives, so that our light may not only lead others but warm them as well.”

President Uchtdorf goes on to say, “While it’s true that we can find materialism and anxiety in Christmas, it is also true that if we have eyes to see, we can experience the powerful message of the birth of the Son of God and feel the hope and peace He brings to the world. We, like the Grinch, can see Christmas through new eyes.

Perhaps even this year we might carve from our busy schedules some time to study and reflect on the true meaning of Christmas—personally and as families.

When we prepare for Christmas by pondering its real meaning, we prepare to experience the Christ and His message. President Uchtdorf suggests three things we may want to study, ponder, and apply in this season of preparation.

First, rejoice in the birth of our Savior. We celebrate the birth of the Son of God, the Creator, our Messiah. We rejoice that the King of kings came to earth, was born in a manger, and lived a perfect life. When Jesus was born, the joy in heaven was so great it could not be contained, and angelic hosts parted the veil, proclaiming unto shepherds “good tidings of great joy, . . . praising God, and saying, Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.”

Wise Men “rejoiced with exceeding great joy. It is only fitting that we—like the Wise Men, shepherds, and angels—take time to rejoice and celebrate that glorious first Christmas Day.

The Second thing President Uchtdorf suggests is to ponder His influence in our lives today. The more commercialized and busy the Christmas season becomes, the easier it is for the sublime message of the Savior’s life to get lost along the way. If we notice that planning for parties and scrambling for presents begin to detract from the peaceable message of Jesus Christ and distance us from the gospel He preached, let us take a step back, slow down a little, and reconsider what matters most.

Christmas is a time for remembering the Son of God and renewing our determination to take upon us His name. It is a time to reassess our lives and examine our thoughts, feelings, and actions. Let this be a time of remembrance, and of gratitude. Let it be a time to ponder the Atonement of Jesus Christ and its meaning for each of us personally. Let it especially be a time of renewal and recommitment to live by the word of God and to obey His commandments. By doing this, we honor Him far more than we ever could with lights, gifts, or parties.

The Third and final suggestion President Uchtdorf gives us is to look steadfastly for His coming. The early disciples of Jesus Christ yearned for the time when He would come again. For them, mortality was a time of preparation and growth, of sifting and refining, a time for trimming their lamps and preparing for the return of their beloved Savior.

Brothers and sisters, 2,000 years later we also stand as His disciples. We are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The term latter-day is significant. We live and serve in a time prior to the Lord’s triumphant return. Our work is to prepare ourselves and the world for the coming of the Messiah in glory!

We live in the 11th hour before the coming of the day of our Lord. Let us therefore look forward to that blessed day when the King of kings descends with a shout,6 takes away death, dries up tears, and ushers in a new era of peace, joy, and learning.

While the Christmas season is typically a time for looking back and celebrating the birth of our Lord, President Uchtdorf suggests that it should also be a time of looking to the future. Let us look forward. Let us prepare for that blessed day when He will come again. Let us be as wise as those ancients who watched for His coming.

If we look for what is wrong with the Christmas season, we can surely find it. Like the Grinch, we can grumble and complain, becoming cold and cynical about what we see around us. Nevertheless, if we look for the good, we can see this time of year with new eyes—perhaps even with the eyes of a child.

The Grinch saw the good in Christmas when he learned to look past its worldly trappings. If we do the same, we can, with the Grinch, proclaim: “Maybe Christmas . . . doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas . . . perhaps . . . means a little bit more!”

President Benson gave a talk in the July 1989 Ensign entitled, “Born of God”. President Benson said, “the Lord works from the inside out. The world works from the outside in. The world would take people out of the slums. Christ takes the slums out of people and then - they take themselves out of the slums.”

 President Benson goes on to say, “The world would mold men by changing their environment. Christ changes men who then change their environment. The world would change human behavior but Christ can change human nature.”

As President Uchtdorf continues, “Our heart may not grow three sizes as the Grinch’s did, but our heart will change. Our eyes will open to the miracles all around us—at Christmastime and throughout the year. I would like to bear my testimony of the divinity of our Savior Jesus Christ. I am grateful for this time of year that can if we focus on the true meaning of Christmas bring families together and I am grateful for the happiness and simplicity of the plan of salvation.


Friday, December 16, 2016

Star Wars, Rogue One!


So not very good quality of pictures but an AMAZING movie!!!! We LOVE STAR WARS!!  By the way, we totally missed having Hannah with us on that screening!  We took her when we went again and loved it even more with her!

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Recipe: Chicken Curry

 This is a favorite recipe of Hannah's.  I got this recipe from Aunt Kelly a couple of years ago and just haven't added it to our family's blog.  I am so grateful for wonderful family that shares their talents and great recipes!  Thank you Aunt Kelly.  This was from the days when we used to go and visit them when they lived in Alabama and Iowa.  Fun memories!
I actually use the crock pot for this one. (surprise surprise, I use the crock pot all the time!)

Recipe: Veggie Pizza!

This is an oldie but a goodie!  It is one of Hannah's favorites.  I haven't made it in a long time but I should.  It is very easy.

Use any ready made crust.  Roll out onto pan the desired thickness and cook according to directions.
Let the crust cool.
I use a garlic and herb or similar cream cheese for the "sauce"
Cut up any type of vegetables and put on top of the cream cheese and enjoy!

This makes me think of you, Hannah, LOVE you!

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Kiss Me, Kate


Derek was in the orchestra for the high school play.  There was intensive practicing 2 months of after school until 6:30 EVERY DAY, or it seemed like it.  Actually it wasn't quite that much, it was more like, during school and then only about 2 to 2 1/2 weeks of the every day after school until 6:30.

The orchestra did amazing of course.  Derek played the bass clarinet, normally he plays the alto saxophone but he is pretty versatile and has been playing the bass clarinet on the side in high school for the past 2 plus years.  If he had his way he would have so many different instruments that he would need a second bedroom.  I love that he loves music.

 My mom and dad are very into classical music and my dad was in a big play, Carousel, when I was little and also played Abraham Lincoln in another play when I was younger.

Derek and my mom are amazingly alike in so many ways.  I love to see it.  They both love music and have a talent for it.  They are both quiet and reserved, they are both old souls and are wise beyond their years, they both have a very strong moral compass and are very compassionate.  They both have very strong sense of right and wrong and feel more comfortable and safe following rules and understand that there is safety in rules.  They also both have had and continue to have a very strong and natural love for the gospel and love to follow it's teachings.  I love them both and love to see genetics at their finest.  It would be well if all people could be more like my mother and Derek.



Sam, Leia and Derek

Saturday, November 19, 2016

Recipe: Tri Tip Roast

This is a very easy recipe.  One thing that we have found though, if you need to freeze the meat do not season the meat before you freeze it, it dries it out.

When you are ready to cook the meat make sure you have some time like over night to marinate the meat in the seaonings.  Put on both sides of the meat.  Wrap with plastic and put in the fridge overnight.
Preheat oven to 350 degrees and cook for 45 minutes.  Do not cover.

This is a yummy easy recipe!

Dinners with Hannah

Hannah is working full time as a CNA at a nursing home while going to school.  I am so proud of her.  She is supporting herself and working hard.  One of my favorite things is when Hannah texts me and asks me to bring her dinner at work.  I love being her mom.  I am glad she is growing up and taking care of herself but sometimes I really miss taking care of her and all that goes with that.  Sometimes we sit in the car together while she eats dinner and I simply love our visits.  That's what they are, simple and lovely.  Sometimes she is so busy she runs out and has to take the dinner and run back in after a tender hug for me and eat when she can.  I love you Hannah!

My drawings

 So, in the past couple of months I have had the desire to draw.  I never really have so it has been a bit of an experience.  I love the Internet though.  I have found many images that I have wanted to try to draw.  This top one, I clearly have a long way to go but my kids are so inspiring to me and so positive.
 Growing up Dr. Seuss was a big part of all of our lives in my family.  I kind of felt like I grew up with him both in his books and with my Dad.  I really feel like he was a type of  Dr. Seuss.
 This is the start of the castle of Hogwarts.  This book series has been a huge impact on me.  I started back in the late '90's reading and listening to it and have never stopped.  They have been a great source of humor and happy thoughts for me.
 Hannah gave me the idea to try to draw this.


 And here is the finished version of the Hogwarts Castle.  I absolutely love the message that I found to put at the top of the picture!
I also began to draw in big part to maybe help to inspire my sweet Hannah to draw again, she has such a talent.  I hope so much that she gets back in to it and continues to develop this amazing talent that she has!

This one is my most recent.  I am wanting to buy some more colored pencils so that I can make more drawings in color.  I think that some would stay best in black and white, but I would like to have as many with color as possible.  Although, I think that could add a dimension of difficulty possibly.  Right now I just don't have very many colors.

Postcard from my Dad. Sweet childhood memory


The older I get the more I love old memories.  These are some of the most precious things I have.  I love that I can save them here on the internet.

My dad used to travel a lot when he worked for McGraw Hill.  He sold text books to colleges.  He quit though because as much as he loved to travel and working for the company he missed his family and would soon have to move to New York City.  He wanted to be home more and although he loved New York City he did not want to move his family there.  He and my mother then opened up the legendary bookstore, "The Family Tree".

Recipe, Six Sister's Slow Cooker Mac & Cheese


Ingredients
  • 2 cups uncooked elbow macaroni
  • 4 tablespoons butter
  • 2 1/2 cups grated sharp cheddar cheese
  • 1/2 cup sour cream
  • 1 (10.75 oz) can condensed cheddar cheese soup
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 cup milk (I used 1%)
  • 1/2 teaspoon dry mustard
  • 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
(I have used heavy cream instead of 1% milk.  I also put in cooked, crumbled bacon and cooked shredded chicken.)
Instructions
  1. Boil the macaroni in water for six minutes and drain.
  2. In a medium saucepan, mix butter and cheese. Heat over medium high heat and stir until the cheese melts.
  3. Spray your slow cooker with non-stick cooking spray. Combine cheese mixture, sour cream, soup, salt, milk, mustard and pepper in your slow cooker. Add the drained macaroni and stir again.
  4. Cook on low for 2 to 2 1/2 hours, stirring occasionally (I cooked mine for about 2 hours and stirred it twice and it was perfect).

My kids and their friends love this.  I can also freeze it in individual serving sizes in bagies which I love to do with a lot of different recipes so that I am not having to cook so much.  Then we can have more fun together.

Thursday, October 27, 2016

My birthday

 What a stunning boquet of flowers.  My kids really knocked it out of the ballpark on this one.  I LOVED it!  Just WOW  thank you so so much!!!!!
 This card was hand picked out of a million cards and it is so kind.  The world and individuals underestimate the power and profound need for kindness.  My kids sure do keep the "kindness bucket" filled for me.  We all thrive and achieve so much more in an atmosphere of kindness.  Hannah and Derek, you are so kind to me, so wise, and generous with compliments and love to me.  Thank you forever.


I happen to LOVE The Far Side.  Thank you kids!